5 Ways to understand her better
1. Pay attention to the little things
So true. If I mention to my guy while he is off at work, that I just got a really bad cough and cold suddenly, would I be happy if that evening, he brings home a huge family pack of ice-cream (even though it’s my favourite)? No na. I rest my case.
So true. If I mention to my guy while he is off at work, that I just got a really bad cough and cold suddenly, would I be happy if that evening, he brings home a huge family pack of ice-cream (even though it’s my favourite)? No na. I rest my case.
2. To keep up with her memory, take notes
It’s a scientific fact: women remember everything. And that is why the daily planner was invented. So if we ask you to get the ironed clothes from the ironing-guy on your way home, there is a reason why we ask. All you have to do it remember to get it, or wear a crumpled shirt to work tomorrow.
It’s a scientific fact: women remember everything. And that is why the daily planner was invented. So if we ask you to get the ironed clothes from the ironing-guy on your way home, there is a reason why we ask. All you have to do it remember to get it, or wear a crumpled shirt to work tomorrow.
3. Follow her calm lead versus instigating fights
In public places, especially in restaurants, how many times have you wanted to punch the waiter for getting the wrong item? Relax. That’s you. But if you want to score extra brownie points with your woman, do keep that aggression (and tone as well) to the minimum and the politeness to the max.
In public places, especially in restaurants, how many times have you wanted to punch the waiter for getting the wrong item? Relax. That’s you. But if you want to score extra brownie points with your woman, do keep that aggression (and tone as well) to the minimum and the politeness to the max.
4. Write her a poem… or at least a cute email
Yes. Yes. Yes. I know you guys may not be Lord Byrons and John Keats of the world; but hey, a romantic little handwritten note, or a cute e-card (no excuses, there are sooo many e-card websites) once in a while would be such a bonus … for you.
Yes. Yes. Yes. I know you guys may not be Lord Byrons and John Keats of the world; but hey, a romantic little handwritten note, or a cute e-card (no excuses, there are sooo many e-card websites) once in a while would be such a bonus … for you.
5. Be her serotonin
Now, there is a reason why women are much more emotional than men. It’s a proven fact that women’s brains produce much less serotonin — the ‘happy’ brain chemical — than male brains do. What does that mean? It simply means, we need to vent if we have a hard day at work, and we want your full attention. Also, a foot rub or massage would be such a bonus … again, for you. After all, you are scoring all those points, aren’t you?
Now, there is a reason why women are much more emotional than men. It’s a proven fact that women’s brains produce much less serotonin — the ‘happy’ brain chemical — than male brains do. What does that mean? It simply means, we need to vent if we have a hard day at work, and we want your full attention. Also, a foot rub or massage would be such a bonus … again, for you. After all, you are scoring all those points, aren’t you?
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